I hope it's too early. I really hate to hear those dreadful FET stats when I read your posts -- makes me cringe -- are they really that bad? I mean, for me personally, FET's have had DREADFUL outcomes. But, my clinic's overall FET stats are so, SO much better than indicated by my personal experiences. (Of course I always fall on the "bad luck" side of things, naturally.)
Still hoping you can beat the odds this time. It may give me hope (although rare that I find hope in others' success, I feel you may be an exception to the rule) that our possibly last FET (#fucking4) will (maybe) work....
(Off topic but a possible mini-project suggestion. I've been paging through your archives trying to track a past entry you made. How easy would it be to add an in-site search tool? I'm not succeeding in finding the post you did on the lady in the States who lost her husband to cancer. You had a picture of an african-theme candle as the request was to light a candle for them.)
Is it just me or do I see the faintest hint of pink in the other line area?
Maybe it's my computer screen or some kind of reflected light but ... hmmm
best of luck,
'wishIknew'
Is that a vague pink line? I used to agonise over that stupid test. I would even hold it up to a strong light just in case I was missing even just a very, very slight pink line.
It isn't fun.
It sucks BIG TIME.
Shall I send you a beautiful bottle of Australian wine just in case that blasted second line never appears. At least you can have some good wine for a change.
I am going with the fact that it is way to early!!!!!!!!!
those HPT, are the worst things, why cant we resist the temptation to buy them!!!! would hate to know how much i have spent on them!!
My hubby and i always laugh, cause in our first year of marriage i was for some reason to shy to go buy pregnancy tests....... no 8 years later i dont really give a damn its part of the groceries now!! No time to be shy after what we go through on this infertility journey
I think it is going to be positive.....You are in my prayers.
Also, I think we should send Tertia a care package of wines from all of her loyal readers from all over the world!! We could start her a great collection!!!!!!! She could show it off to all of her friends.
Hang in there! I am in CT for business (live in JHB) until Monday and I'm sending extra special POSITIVE vibes, prayers,thoughts ...... you name it! They have less distance to travel - so theory is that they are stronger! has HAS to help!;-) Am so holding thumbs for you!
Natalie
I am in the too early camp. Do you know the sensitivity of these tests?
Little story for you, short version. TTC for #1, 5 years, TONS of negative HPT's. Hate them things as in DISPISE. Never any good news from an HPT. IVF #4 for my son, no HPT's ahead of time, had a + beta that morning of 57. Had some left over and wanted to finally see a + on one of those stinking things. Do you that night it was negative! I was using a brand that measured about 150 HCG and I guess I was not up at that kind of level yet. Can you believe that? Here I was finally pg with a + beta and I still could not a second pink line on a flippin HPT.
Sending good thoughts to you and I am still hoping you are pg with 1 healthy baby. You two make beautiful babies. :)
Tertia, When I need a pick me up regarding all things infertile I read this post:
http://www.alittlepregnant.com/alittlepregnant/jesus_gay_im_pregnant/index.html
I hope it brings you a couple of laughs while you are waiting. I spent years looking at those damn tests, I'm wishing the best for yours.
Love
Louise
Prayers and positive thoughts (whichever you believe in) coming from me!
I read your blog for a long time and then got busy with my own life. What a pleasant surprise to check in and see what you are up to! Your wee ones are adorable. Thank you for sharing the journey that is your life.
WAY too early -- I didn't show a positive on my FET until 11 days past the transfer of 6-day blasts. And I took an HPT everyday (sometimes more) everyday, just like you're doing. Now, granted, that FET ended in a dangerous cervical ectopic pregnancy -- but, hey -- it's nice to have SOME drama for $7,000 US, right?!? Best of luck to you, dear Tertia . . . hope you get another screamer or two out of this!! :-P
Love your blog, I am a fellow SA'can, now living in Canada. I have a friend who tried for 7 years to have a baby, then did IVF WITH ACCUPUNTURE and had twins. So have you given accupunture a thought, it does help!!!! You have nothing to lose.
I kept finding myself squinting and wanting to reach through the screen to take the test apart to hold it up to the light to see a really light second line that would indicate that you are indeed pregnant.
I'm on my 6th Injectibles IUI cycle and had my second insem. today. Lord help me because I'll be in your shoes in two weeks. Sigh.
Too early! Hang in there. Deep breathes and fertile thoughts to you.
Much love and care
Posted by: Jeanne | 29 June 2007 at 09:22 AM
Def too early. Thinking and praying (cos I do that) for you. Just keep those screamers of yours close by at all times.
Posted by: Bianca | 29 June 2007 at 09:33 AM
I hope it's too early. I really hate to hear those dreadful FET stats when I read your posts -- makes me cringe -- are they really that bad? I mean, for me personally, FET's have had DREADFUL outcomes. But, my clinic's overall FET stats are so, SO much better than indicated by my personal experiences. (Of course I always fall on the "bad luck" side of things, naturally.)
Still hoping you can beat the odds this time. It may give me hope (although rare that I find hope in others' success, I feel you may be an exception to the rule) that our possibly last FET (#fucking4) will (maybe) work....
All the best to you Tertia.
xx
Nilla
Posted by: Nilla | 29 June 2007 at 09:34 AM
(Off topic but a possible mini-project suggestion. I've been paging through your archives trying to track a past entry you made. How easy would it be to add an in-site search tool? I'm not succeeding in finding the post you did on the lady in the States who lost her husband to cancer. You had a picture of an african-theme candle as the request was to light a candle for them.)
Posted by: Jeanne | 29 June 2007 at 09:41 AM
Is it just me or do I see the faintest hint of pink in the other line area?
Maybe it's my computer screen or some kind of reflected light but ... hmmm
best of luck,
'wishIknew'
Posted by: wishIknew | 29 June 2007 at 10:31 AM
It's way to early.. You just had it done last week. WAY too early.
Posted by: Lindsey | 29 June 2007 at 11:00 AM
All my bits STILL crossed here - it IS very early so......
Posted by: Julie | 29 June 2007 at 11:53 AM
Is that a vague pink line? I used to agonise over that stupid test. I would even hold it up to a strong light just in case I was missing even just a very, very slight pink line.
It isn't fun.
It sucks BIG TIME.
Shall I send you a beautiful bottle of Australian wine just in case that blasted second line never appears. At least you can have some good wine for a change.
Posted by: Bec (and Charlotte) | 29 June 2007 at 12:14 PM
after the cover package, the hpt itself is a bit of a letdown. i expected it to be covered in roses, or to have potpourri sachets all over the place.
i have no idea if you're testing too early, or ??? , but i can read how "good" you are about all of this. xo
Posted by: tess | 29 June 2007 at 01:23 PM
keep testing. hang in there.
Posted by: Amber | 29 June 2007 at 02:40 PM
I see a light pink line and a dark pink line. Am I hallucinating?
Posted by: Rachee | 29 June 2007 at 02:47 PM
It's still early. I hope that's what it is.
Posted by: JuliaKB | 29 June 2007 at 02:47 PM
I am going with the fact that it is way to early!!!!!!!!!
those HPT, are the worst things, why cant we resist the temptation to buy them!!!! would hate to know how much i have spent on them!!
My hubby and i always laugh, cause in our first year of marriage i was for some reason to shy to go buy pregnancy tests....... no 8 years later i dont really give a damn its part of the groceries now!! No time to be shy after what we go through on this infertility journey
Posted by: charne | 29 June 2007 at 03:00 PM
Good luck! First time I'm leaving a comment on your blog even though I read it all the time! Just want to say all the best!
Posted by: Diana | 29 June 2007 at 03:32 PM
I think it is going to be positive.....You are in my prayers.
Also, I think we should send Tertia a care package of wines from all of her loyal readers from all over the world!! We could start her a great collection!!!!!!! She could show it off to all of her friends.
Positive thoughts all the way.................
Michelle
Posted by: michelle | 29 June 2007 at 03:41 PM
Okay, how lame is it that I started squinting at the screen, trying to catch a hint of the other line?
Sheesh.
Posted by: wyliekat | 29 June 2007 at 03:50 PM
Hey - that looks familiar!
But seriously, don't give up yet. It's way too early to do that.
Posted by: Andrea | 29 June 2007 at 04:47 PM
SAME Andrea again,
Michelle; I second the wine motion!
Posted by: Andrea | 29 June 2007 at 04:49 PM
Hang in there! I am in CT for business (live in JHB) until Monday and I'm sending extra special POSITIVE vibes, prayers,thoughts ...... you name it! They have less distance to travel - so theory is that they are stronger! has HAS to help!;-) Am so holding thumbs for you!
Natalie
Posted by: Natalie | 29 June 2007 at 05:10 PM
I am in the too early camp. Do you know the sensitivity of these tests?
Little story for you, short version. TTC for #1, 5 years, TONS of negative HPT's. Hate them things as in DISPISE. Never any good news from an HPT. IVF #4 for my son, no HPT's ahead of time, had a + beta that morning of 57. Had some left over and wanted to finally see a + on one of those stinking things. Do you that night it was negative! I was using a brand that measured about 150 HCG and I guess I was not up at that kind of level yet. Can you believe that? Here I was finally pg with a + beta and I still could not a second pink line on a flippin HPT.
Sending good thoughts to you and I am still hoping you are pg with 1 healthy baby. You two make beautiful babies. :)
Posted by: Gina | 29 June 2007 at 05:20 PM
I also squinted to see the faint pink line, and tried to see if the picture would enlarge, lol.
I'm keeping my fingers crossed though.
Posted by: Kris | 29 June 2007 at 05:20 PM
Pee sticks are evil, you know that! I hope that it's lying to you.
Posted by: jenny | 29 June 2007 at 05:54 PM
Tertia, When I need a pick me up regarding all things infertile I read this post:
http://www.alittlepregnant.com/alittlepregnant/jesus_gay_im_pregnant/index.html
I hope it brings you a couple of laughs while you are waiting. I spent years looking at those damn tests, I'm wishing the best for yours.
Love
Louise
Posted by: Louise | 29 June 2007 at 06:37 PM
Fingers are crossed for you.
Posted by: MamaLady | 29 June 2007 at 07:32 PM
Prayers and positive thoughts (whichever you believe in) coming from me!
I read your blog for a long time and then got busy with my own life. What a pleasant surprise to check in and see what you are up to! Your wee ones are adorable. Thank you for sharing the journey that is your life.
Posted by: chrystal | 29 June 2007 at 08:57 PM
WAY too early -- I didn't show a positive on my FET until 11 days past the transfer of 6-day blasts. And I took an HPT everyday (sometimes more) everyday, just like you're doing. Now, granted, that FET ended in a dangerous cervical ectopic pregnancy -- but, hey -- it's nice to have SOME drama for $7,000 US, right?!? Best of luck to you, dear Tertia . . . hope you get another screamer or two out of this!! :-P
Posted by: Stacey | 29 June 2007 at 09:13 PM
Like Bonnie Raitt sang, "It's Too Soon To Tell..."
xoxo
Posted by: Suzie-Q. | 29 June 2007 at 10:09 PM
Way too early. Keep testing and try your best to relax. Sounds like you are preparing yourself correctly for either result. Hang in there.
Posted by: Incognito | 29 June 2007 at 11:10 PM
Hi there
Love your blog, I am a fellow SA'can, now living in Canada. I have a friend who tried for 7 years to have a baby, then did IVF WITH ACCUPUNTURE and had twins. So have you given accupunture a thought, it does help!!!! You have nothing to lose.
Jennifer
Posted by: Jennifer | 29 June 2007 at 11:56 PM
I kept finding myself squinting and wanting to reach through the screen to take the test apart to hold it up to the light to see a really light second line that would indicate that you are indeed pregnant.
I'm on my 6th Injectibles IUI cycle and had my second insem. today. Lord help me because I'll be in your shoes in two weeks. Sigh.
Posted by: Aimee | 30 June 2007 at 12:30 AM
I saw a line too but maybe evaporation line?
Posted by: andrea | 30 June 2007 at 05:25 AM