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... this is just so sad, damnit. Just... sorry, sorry, what can one say. You are just such a good mom and you have inspired so many people. I'm speechless, really, I am.

No no no...

I am so so sorry. I wanted this for you so badly.

I am so very sorry to hear that. (((Tertia and Marco)))

Oh Tertia ... I so wanted this to be your happy ending. I am so sad for you & Marko, these losses rip your guts out.

I am so incredibly sorry.....

I'm so sorry. I hoped and prayed as much as I could.


Tertia, I am so so sorry for you and Marko.

Shattered to hear this news and send sympathy to you both.

I don't know what to say. I'll stare at the screen a while, wishing I could sit with you for a while, quietly, even though I don't really know you.

I'm so sorry, Tertia.

I'm so very sorry this has happened.

A very good friend gave me your blog address some time ago, until now I haven't left comments. Today I feel the need to do so. I am so sorry, my thoughts are with you at this time

I am so so sorry.

There are no words that will ease your pain, but I will say them anyway:

Wishing you comfort and peace as you work your way through this horrible, horrible process.

Much love,

Oh shit. So sorry for you and all your family. I was really holding out hope for a good outcome for you.


very very sorry for your loss

hugs from me to you. my heart goes out to you.

that blows. So very sorry.

Oh, Tertia. That just sucks ass. Why is God such a dick?

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I'm so sorry.

Praying for ya.


I am so sorry.

Oh, gods, Tertia....


I am so very sorry.

Oh no. So very sorry.

Oh, I wanted this so bad for you.

Damn it. That so sucky. I'm so sorry. I was hoping and praying for you.

Oh no - please know that you and your lovely family are in our thoughts and prayers.

I am so sorry.

I am SO sorry Tertia :(

Tertia--I don't know what to say that hasn't already been said. I thank you for being so open and sharing your life with us. I love reading your writing and seeing pictures of your family. You are beautiful, funny, talented, and a wonderful mum. Hang in there...

What a terrible, cruel thing to happen. I'm so, so sorry.

Dammit.I am so sorry.

So sorry. I know there are no words.

I'm so very sorry.

nononononoooooooo. I am so sorry, Tertia. So awfully and terribly sorry. Huge hugs and kisses to you & Marko, I'm just so sad for you both...

Love you, love you, love you. Lots of tears and thoughts for you.

I'm so very sorry.

I'm so so sorry

I just have nothing I can possibly say. Tears from the other side of the globe. I am just sick for you and this unfair twisted journey. You are so amazingly wonderful and deserve so so much better than this.

Hugs from British Columbia Canada


Hugest, hugest hugs.

Oh my God, that absolute last thing I expected to read. I am so incredibly sorry. It just seemed that if you could get pregnant so miraculously it had to turn out right. I was so sure that this was going to be a totally normal pregnancy, smooth sailing all the way.

It is completely unfair that there you were going about your life, not trying to get pregnant, not expecting to get pregnant, not making yourself vulnerable, excited about the Blooker Prize short-listing and all the other great things in your life, and then blam! you are back in that world, and all of a sudden excited and hopeful and scared all over again, and then just as quick, it is all over.

What a mind fuck. Totally unfair.

I'm so very sorry

Oh my god, I'm so sorry.
Hugs from another long-time lurker.

Oh I am so sorry.

My deepest sympathies, Tertia. I am so sorry to hear this.

I'm so sorry, Tertia, so so sorry.

No, no, no.

Fucking unfair! Stupid asshole douchebag cumbubble shitstain universe.


So so sorry...

You poor pet. I'm so sorry for you....

I am so, so sorry. Please, take care of yourself.

I'm so so so sorry honey

I'm sorry, T. So sorry.

My sincere condolences.

Thinking of you...... x

I am so sorry for your loss.

I didn't see that coming. I'm so sorry, Tertia. For you and Marko. I feel sick.

I'm so sorry.

Well, that sucks. A big one.

I'm so, so sorry.

Much love


Can't remember if you've had similar before. The exact same thing happened to me before Lulu was born. A word of caution. I had bled for AGES after the evacuation, just spotting with a couple of heavier episodes but it went on for weeks and I ended up with anaemia. So please, please take care of yourself after the procedure. You're going to need lots of rest and lots of TLC.

I don't know what to say except that I'm so, so sorry, Tertia. What an unfair, heart-breaking thing. Sending you lots of love from the other side of the world....

I will be praying/thinking of you.

My dear Tertia, I am just so incredibly sorry. My heart aches for you.

I am so sorry! I just knew that things could go well for you. Life with infertility is just not fair. I don't understand.

Just wanted to add my own "so sorry" to all the others and to thank you for being so candid with your most raw feelings.
I first found your site at the end of my two week wait when I got a positive, but low, beta number and spent the weekend frantically searching for details on late impantations. The pregnancy stuck -- for a while at least, and then just when I thought I'd gotten over the hurdle, it didn't stick anymore.
Your blog and others have been a huge source of support and entertainment.
Wishing you the best and feel better.

Oh Tertia. I'm so sorry. You and Marko are in my prayers.

*crying* (along with so many others here)

Been checking in each day, and got caught offguard by today's news. I lost one before treatment began and one after first child; all these years later, I still remember the pain.

Please hug Adam and Kate extra long tonight, and watch their beautiful little faces as they sleep.

I am so very sorry. The pain and sting of infertility must be hitting you with full force right now. You are in my thoughts.

Aaaaaagh! No!

Oh, shit, Tertia. I am sorry. How horrid. I wish there was something I could say that could possibly help.

I am wishing peace and strength for you and Marko.

I'm so sorry

What unexpected sadness. We know you'll pull through, but how we wish you could have this differently.
Peace to you, as you let go.

I am so very sorry for you and Marko. So sorry...

I've checked your blog over 5 times today hoping by some miracle that everything is ok ~ but I know, only too well, how these things go. Infertility is the absolute worst thing a woman can endure ~ I know Marko is suffering too.

So sorry ~ I'm aching for you & your family. Try & take care...T

Oh no, I'm so very sad to hear this, there are no words that I can say that can possibly help but please know that my thoughts are with you.

Tertia, I am so, so sorry. No matter what one believes, this just seems so cruel and unfair. I'll be thinking of you both.


oohhhh t. i'm so sorry. sending love and support.

like so many others i dont know what else to say apart from I'm sorry. And Shit. Why do crap things like this happen to good people? I am so sorry, and will be thinking of you Thursday. Much love always xxx

Tertia, I am so sorry. You kept me sane during all the loss I suffered. I wish there was more that I could do or say then I am sorry.

I laughed when I read your post saying you got pregnant from sex and who have thought that would happen. I smiled when I read Kate and Adam's response and Marko's too. I was sad but hopefull when I read the post about the falling progesterone.

I am truly so very sorry for the loss of your baby.

that above comment was posted my me, niki alvey, not tertia. i was typing through tears and i messed up.


Tertia...delurking to say I'm so sorry =( It almost seems like a cruel joke. I hope you are doing ok.

What a kick in the gut. I'm so sorry my dear.

Oh Tertia, I am sorry to hear it and hope that you are coping as best you can in a tough situation. However you feel, please know that others are thinking of you and wishing things were different. Take care.

So very very sorry.

I hope eventually for peace of mind for you & Marko.

**HUGS** I'm so sorry Tertia:(

Much sympathy to you and Marko.

So sorry, Tertia. There are no good words, but know that I, along with all the others, am thinking of you and wishing for peace for your family.

I read this earlier in the day, and it was like someone punched me in the stomach. I was hoping I'd come back and discover it was a nightmare, that I'd read wrong or something. I can't believe how horribly unfair this is. I am so very sorry. You'll be in my thoughts.

Delurking to say that I was so sorry to read your news. Please take good care of yourself and remind Marko to be good to you as well--or for that matter be good to eachother--it's such a hard time emotionally and, compounded by the sudden free fall of hormones, it makes for such a lot of pain. Take care.

so very sorry.

Damn -that just sucks. I am so very very sorry.

Feeling pain for you and your family. May you find your way through this tragedy.

I'm so sorry Tertia. Adam and Kate need to give you lots of hugs now.

I am so incredibly sorry.

I am so very sorry. Take good care of yourself

Tertia, I'm so very sorry. Hugs to you from across the ocean.

Oh no. no, no, no. I am so sad for you and Marko, and will keep prayerful thoughts for you both.

I am so sorry -- I came back here three times hoping that somehow your post would change. So sad that it did now.

Should say "did not."


I am so so sorry.

Oh tertia, I'm gutted for you. You and marko take care of yourselves...and I'm sure you will get plenty of cuddles from Adam and Kate

Oh shit. Why can't this be easy JUST ONCE? I'm so sorry.

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