I still get that 'are they identical' thing a lot. I am never quite sure how to answer. I don’t want to embarrass the person by mention the whole boy vs girl / onehasapenistheotheravaginasohowcouldtheybeidentical thing. But if I don’t point it out, they will keep asking the question. Oh well, its not my job to educate them.
playing (Kate in pigtails, Adam with boy hair cut, boy clothes – unmistakably BOY
and GIRL) and the woman asked me if they were identical. I replied, ‘no, they aren’t. They are actually very different, in every
single way’. And they really are. Not just physically – Adam has straight blond
hair with a very olivey skin and looks like a combo of Marko and I. Kate is
fair with brown curly hair and looks a lot like our Fertility Specialist.
* I remember before I had kids, I used look on in horror at mothers who ignored their kids while they caused havoc and think to myself, “can you not get that child under control!” Now I think “as long as they aren’t breaking anything or killing each other, and it is keeping them amused, let them carry on as is.” At least it gives me the time I need to pay for my groceries etc.