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Oh, Tertia. I'm so sorry. You must be feeling so hopeless.

Can you do international adoption from SA? Or embryo donation? Embryo donation is so much cheaper here in the US than egg donation is.

Oh, NO... I'm so sorry. After my many failures, I bagan to get through them by simply knowing I had before. No comfort, I know.

Ahhh, Tersh, this blows.

Impossible anguish.

Tertia--I'm so very sorry. I hope Friday comes soon.

oh Tertia,

I have a lump in my throat from reading your post. I know exactly how it feels to know it didn't work. it's cumulative, all the disappointments, all the pain and it is 100X worse when you are on those damn meds. look, I know it doesn't help, but you will come out the other side of this pain- we always do. I believe in you and what you are doing.

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So very sorry. Have been thinking of you often and hoping.
Some days are four-tier floor-cake kind of days.
I've read you explore the donor options so I know that's on the table. But is there no adoption possibility? All are so hopeless? Internationally? Various hues? I'm sure this doesn't help a lick, but maybe, when you pull up again, (and you will!) you might find hope in that exploration. But not now. Not yet. I know. You and your husband have to find your way. I just cannot believe it's science or childlessness. Seems impossible.

Somewhere many, many miles away a girl sits at her desk wishing there was something she could say to lessen your pain.

Just want you to know that I wish there was something I could say other than "I'm sorry." I am grieving the failure of another IVF myself and your comment about all of the pain coming back at a time like this struck a nerve with me. Its as if all of it is cumulative, and you only feel it at times like this. Why does it have to hurt so much?

Hoping that news is different on Friday, but know that you know your body. Won't send any positive thoughts your way. :-)

Thank you for sharing your "journey" (for lack of a better word) It has allowed me to remember that I am not alone in this hell we call infertility!

Just want you to know that I wish there was something I could say other than "I'm sorry." I am grieving the failure of another IVF myself and your comment about all of the pain coming back at a time like this struck a nerve with me. Its as if all of it is cumulative, and you only feel it at times like this.

Hoping that news is different on Friday, but know that you know your body. Won't send any positive thoughts your way. :-)

Thank you for sharing your "journey" (for lack of a better word) It has allowed me to remember that I am not alone in this hell we call infertility!

Tertia,
I hate to say this because I'll sound like my mother, (and I hate it when she does it to me) but I'm saying it anyway:

No, no, no, no. No!
I refuse to believe your acupuncturist. I will not give up hope. Not until I have to!

Okay, I'm done. You may smack me now.

Tertia, your post broke my heart. I'm so sorry I really hope your acupuncturist was wrong. I know exactly what you mean about the dying thing too--it seems so much easier. And I stayed here for my husband, too. And sometimes I think--just who am I living for? My parents? My husband? What about myself? Why can't I live for me?

I love you, Tertia. And so do lots of women here. You are an incredible inspiration to so many of us. We'll be here if you need us, and like Kristine said, there's someone halfway across the world right now, wishing with all she's got that you will be okay, better than okay, wonderful, no matter what happens.

People are looking at you thinking you are an incredible survivor, to have come through everything and still have enough of yourself left to *share* with the rest of us, is what.

I am so sorry. I wish there was anything I could do.

I am so sorry Tertia. My thoughts are with you this week.

Tertia, this totally sucks. I really
hope that you and Vicky are wrong....

My heart breaks for all of us.

I'd like to echo all the other comments here, but one sentence really jumped out at me...

"Are people looking at me thinking I am pathetic and I should have moved on long ago?"

The truth is it's not really moving on unless it's something you are ready for.

Wishing you all the strength you need...

Oh, damnit, I'm so sorry. For what it's worth, just know that I'm thinking of you, and I understand.

You have my heart.

Yo, baby. Just thinking of you.

I'm so sorry things aren't looking positive right now.

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